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REDDING, Calif. (AP) — A couple whose flattened trailer tire accidentally started a massive fire in Northern California has received more than 100 cards and letters with supportive messages telling them not to feel guilty.The outpouring of support for an 81-year-old man and his wife started after Rachel Pilli made a Facebook post offering to forward compassionate messages to the couple, the Record Searchlight in Redding, California, reported Wednesday.Pilli doesn't know the couple, but said a firefighter who knows them told her the woman blames herself and cries day and night. She decided to send them a card with a supportive message and then posted about the couple on social media.RELATED: Cal Fire firefighters feed fish after family forced to evacuate during Carr Fire"I couldn't imagine the grief," she said. "If I were the one responsible for the accident I couldn't imagine the shame and the torture I'd feel."The blaze that has destroyed nearly 1,100 homes and killed eight people started on July 23 with a spark from a vehicle driving on a flat tire, fire officials said. It was 67 percent contained as of Wednesday.Pilli said she has received more than 100 cards and letters and they keep coming. People have also sent bouquets of flowers and gifts for the couple.RELATED: Exhausted San Diego County firefighters return from burn zonePilli, a doctor and mother of three, and a friend are reading the letters before they send them to the couple to make sure all are encouraging. Thus far, they have been.She said she hopes the couple "feel the love and forgive themselves.""I think the fire has caused us to look into each other's eyes and discover the human kindness in us," Pilli said. "People have been so generous. It's a beautiful story of hope and community." 1795

Psychologist say there are ways white people can be better allies for black colleagues during this time.Dr. Alfiee Breeland-Noble says there are things you should consider before reaching out.First, make sure it's appropriate.If you're polite to each other, but never really had deeper conversations before, now may not be the time. It can come off as disingenuous.Then, think about how you would want to be approached in a time of crisis. Some people may want space, while others do want to talk.Recognize that there may be cultural differences and be open about it.“So, it's really all about, I'm owning our experience, our life experiences are different. I'm owning my race. I'm acknowledging your race. I'm valuing both as equally valid and I'm saying to you in plain language, ‘I want to be a support to you,’” said Breland-Noble, psychologist and founder of the AAKOMA Project.That's a key part. You're trying to show support for them. Don't make it about you or your own validation.You can get that message across with what Breland-Noble calls "I statements.”“I want to communicate to you. I want to tell you that I care about you deeply, that I value you. That, you know and for some people it's important to hear that I do believe that black lives matter,” said Breland-Noble.Breland-Noble also recommends actually speaking with your black colleague. An email or a text can seem less personal. 1410

Regardless of their author, the content of the hacked tweets is something I have talked about at length in my book, in podcasts and in countless interviews regarding my decision to resign, as well as the constant work and reflection I’ve done since then.— Katie Hill (@KatieHill4CA) October 7, 2020 306

President Donald Trump will meet with North Korean leader Kim Jong Un by May, the South Korean national security adviser announced Thursday at the White House.Kim told the South Koreans "he is committed to denuclearization" and pledged North Korea will "refrain from any further nuclear or missile tests" South Korean national security adviser Chung Eui-Yong said Thursday from the White House.Kim also told the South Koreans he understands that the US and South Korea will move forward with their joint military exercises later this year."He expressed his eagerness to meet President Trump as soon as possible," Chung said. 632

President Donald Trump used the United Nations as a foil on the campaign trail in 2016, slamming it for its "utter weakness and incompetence" and arguing that it is "not a friend of freedom."His history with the international body on Manhattan's East Side doesn't start there -- as a real estate creature of New York, Trump has long interacted with the UN.On his first day attending the UN's yearly meeting, Trump tried to play nice. But it's clear that his skepticism for the organization remains. 506

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