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SAN DIEGO (KGTV) - Kion Gould still lives at the La Jolla Crossroads Apartments, where one year ago on his birthday a gunman opened fire, hitting him and six others.He survived, but his friend Monique Clark died. He spent a month in the hospital recovering from three gunshot wounds. When he got out, he went back to his gym routine and says now he’s physically back in shape. But “mentally, there is anguish,” he says.His life has become a study in what happens to mass shooting victims who survive.The shooting plays out in his head often, reliving the day in vivid detail.“It seemed like it happened yesterday,” he says.It was April 30, 2017. Gould says things were winding down at the pool and they were about to head to dinner in Pacific Beach.He was heading toward the pool gate when he noticed a man lying by himself on a lounge chair.He remembers telling him, “It’s my birthday, come have a good time. We’ve got food, we’ve got drinks, we’ve got girls. That’s exactly what I said.”The man, now identified as Peter Selis, did not respond with words. Instead, he pulled out a .45 caliber handgun.“I didn’t think it was a real threat until he basically raised the gun toward my head,” said Gould.He remembered thinking part of him wanted to jump on top of the man and rip the gun away. But something held him back as he tried to rationalize the situation. Why would someone have a gun there?“What stopped me was the thought that he was a special needs person that had a toy,” he remembered. “Then I thought he was an undercover cop.”But within seconds it became clear it was not a fake and he intended to use it. Reflexively, Gould raised his arms over his face.Selis’ first shot hit his left arm.“I remember seeing blood dripping down my face so I thought I was shot in the head.”He turned to run and was hit twice in the back.He was able to make it out of the gate and up a set of stairs where he collapsed overlooking the pool.“I was up above everything and I was witnessing him shooting everyone. Like he’s just there shooting, reloading. Shooting, reloading.”Meantime, Kalli Seely was down on the pool deck. She had her purse strung over her shoulder and was on her way out when the shooting began.“I heard the first gunshot and looked automatically at Kion for some reason,” said Seely.But she couldn’t tell what was going on yet.“Then I felt something hit my arm,” she said. “I thought somebody threw something at me.”It wasn’t until she heard a friend yell “gun!” that she realized what was happening.She had been shot twice. Once in the arm and once in her left breast.“I was like ‘am I going to die?’ because that’s what you think when you get shot in the chest,” she thought.Later she would learn the bullet did not strike any vital organs but she ended up nearly passing out on the lawn outside the pool. Someone picked her up and brought her to a sidewalk on Judicial Drive where they waited for an ambulance.But as police arrived, they began closing off all the roads around the complex, blocking even ambulances from getting through. A few minutes later, Seely says a security guard drove by and took her and two other victims to the area where first responders were waiting.“Within 20 minutes we were in the hospital while the rest of them were scared, bleeding, in the pool area with the guy still shooting,” she said.By the time police killed Selis, seven people had been shot.Gould’s friend Monique Clark later died.“She had always been a happy person,” he said.Clark almost didn’t come. Gould said they had been hanging out several days before when he accidentally closed his car door on her finger, breaking it.“She was just mad at me. She didn’t hate me,” he said. But she was reluctant to come until Gould worked his charm to convince her.“I would gladly give my life for her to be here,” he now says, specifically because of her three children.“I would trade places with her, easily, without a doubt so she could be there for them. She will be forever in my heart.”Gould was eventually taken to am ambulance and remembers being conscious until he was sedated at the hospital.It turned out, the bullet did not make it through his arm into his head. Only a fragment had struck his eyelid.“The doctor was surprised I stopped the .45 with my bone,” said Gould.Doctors credited his strong physique for saving his life. While some of the fingers on his left hand are now numb, he says his body has made a full recovery.That’s only one step in the healing process though, he says.“There’s an aftermath that happens to all of this,” referring not just this shooting, but to victims of all shootings.“People just have developed [a] numbness to ‘oh, there’s a shooting. And another shooting.’ ”Seely agreed, observing mass shootings become widely publicized, then the media and the public move on to the next. The pain of the victims, especially the ones who survive, often gets forgotten she says.“There’s a deep pain that doesn’t go away and it lives with you everyday and it never stops.”Both describe it as a lingering weight.“I try and push it to the back of my head and forget that it’s there, but as soon as things are quiet and I go to mundane, everyday tasks it creeps right back in,” said Seely.Gould says he and another one of the shooting survivors have enrolled in an experimental PTSD treatment study at UCSD. But he’s skeptical it will help.Even though the shooter is dead, Gould says his hatred towards Selis can be all-consuming.“He created, this tragic, unforgiving, relentless thing that’s continuing to influence our lives. And you can never have that back.” 5625

SAN DIEGO (KGTV) - It's a weekend for food, fun, and a funky-smelling flower.Fleet Science Center is bringing the magic of "Star Wars" to our galaxy with a pre-party and private screening of "Solo: A Star Wars Story."Bolt Brewery is hosting a celebration for the local non-profit Traveling Stories with performances by "One Tree Hill" star Tyler Hilton and former American Idol contestant Lindsey Carrier in La Mesa, complete with food and drinks, and activities for kids.Don't see anything interesting? Check our 10News event calendar for even more local happenings!Catfishing season is back in Lakeside, with Lake Jennings being stocked with 2,000 pounds of catfish for Memorial Day weekend.Vista's famed Strawberry Festival also returns, with more than 400 vendors, carnival rides, and, of course, lots of strawberries.If you're willing to put up with the scent, a "corpse flower" will be in bloom at the San Diego Botanical Gardens this weekend as well. The name is enough warning of what you'll smell.THURSDAYFleet Night of ScienceWhere: Fleet Science Center; Cost: .49Celebrate the opening of the new Star Wars flick, "Solo: A Star Wars Story" with a pre-party at the Sandbox followed by a private screening! Jump into themed activities, meet the local 501st Legion Stormtroopers, and explore the "Star Wars" universe with Dr. Lisa Will and Dr. Shane Haggard and comedian Robert Timothy. Family Fun FestWhere: Bolt Brewing; Cost: - Local nonprofit Traveling Stories is celebrating their 8th year with a family fun fest, featuring a silent auction, food and drinks, activities for kids, and live performances from Tyler Hilton, of "One Tree Hill," and Lindsey Carrier, a former American Idol contestant. 1765

SAN DIEGO (KGTV) - It is Tax Day, and if you’re like most Californians, you’re probably wondering what happened to the nice refund you’re used to getting. Or worse, you owe the government this year. So how do you Make it in San Diego on Tax Day? We found an expert who can help.It's the worst sticker shock imaginable. You're used to a little something back from the government every year in the form of a refund, but suddenly you find yourself with a hefty bill. And the feds don't look kindly on late payments."I always tell people: if you owe money, the first step is don't panic," says Ariel Jurow-Kleiman an Assistant Professor of Law at the University of San Diego. Jurow-Kleiman should know. She's helped people in this situation many times before as a tax attorney and now teaches tax law at USD. Here's the problem."The Federal tax laws were changed in a way that will dramatically affect California residents," explains Professor Kleiman.And that's probably what hit you, too. Many itemized deductions you used to get were either tossed out or capped. "It used to be you could deduct all of your state income taxes," adds Jurow-Kleiman.Now those California income taxes are capped at ,000. And your house, the interest on the mortgage was capped too - double whammy. So, if you owe, here's the first step: do not put off filing. "Absolutely, it is so important to file your taxes on time even if you think you're going to owe," says Professor Kleiman, emphasizing the point. There are penalties for filing late: 5% of your tax liability and up to a maximum of 25%. So, let's say you owe 00 and didn't file for a month, that alone will cost you at least an extra . So, file right away, and pay what you can now."There is interest, it fluctuates, right now it's 6%. It compounds daily so every day, every week that you owe there is a little bit more interest that's added on," warns Jurow-Kleiman.That compound interest can accrue quickly but Professor Kleiman says there are options. You could file for an extension and pay the full amount later. Or you could work out an installment agreement but know some fees could be tacked on. In some cases, paying off your taxes with a credit card could be cheaper than the interest from the government."If you're considering owing money to the government versus owing money to a private lender,” adds Professor Kleiman, “It's very often better to borrow money from a private lender and pay your taxes."However, Professor Kleiman adds that’s not always the case. She advises avoiding payday lenders or someone who charges very high-interest rates. And there is help, especially for those with low incomes, the elderly and the disabled.We have provided links to the Volunteer Income Tax Assistance Program and the local Taxpayer Advocate. For local low income clinics you can call the University of San Diego LITC at (619) 260-7470 or Legal Aid Society of San Diego LITC at (877) 534-2524.Finally, make sure you don’t fall into this situation again next year by checking that you have the proper withholding in your paycheck. You can discuss that with your Human Resources representative at work or a tax expert. 3181

SAN DIEGO (KGTV) -- If you are experiencing mental fatigue like never before, you are not alone. Many people who are used to forging ahead in times of crisis, like this coronavirus pandemic, say the feeling is unfamiliar. Emily Chandler of Vista says she never could have imagined her kids would still be distance learning in the fall. "This has been going on so long, and I'm just exhausted," Chandler says. Her three sons are in three different schools and her oldest, Timmy, has autism. Helping them all with school means studying up on things herself. Marriage and family therapist Serene Carruthers, of Sharp Mesa Vista Hospital, says what Chandler is feeling is tied to the seemingly endless nature of the pandemic."It really is because our body is built to respond to stressful events typically that last for a duration of a short period of time," says Carruthers. "Some experts call it surge capacity. Like a battery our adaptive system can provide us with the mental, physical and emotional power to survive a short-term emergency. Then it needs to be recharged which is easier said than done during a pandemic because for many people, their self-care rituals have been upended or canceled.""It is a very lonely time and I'm not getting that energy, that recharge," says Chandler. Carruthers says not to underestimate the power of play, which is free and can be done anywhere. She also recommends shifting expectations, maintaining connections with loved ones, keeping a gratitude journal about the good in your life, and exercising even if it's just walking in your home. Chandler says the reopening of her gym helped her feel like herself again, and she and Carruthers both say it's all right to ask for help, which Chandler says she's glad she did."I got on an anti-anxiety medication and I'm not embarrassed about that. It's really, really helped me," Chandler says.What has also helped is her boys have been troopers, making it clear that sometimes the biggest challenge can also bring the greatest joy. 2031

SAN DIEGO (KGTV) - It’s getting harder and harder to buy a home in San Diego. But according to Veterans United Home Loans, VA loans in California are surging, and they’re up 15 percent this year in San Diego.Navy veteran Robert Streets and his wife Corrie are part of that surge."There was a large cabinet that came out here, and we knocked that down," says Streets in his recently remodeled kitchen.The Streets are proud to show off their new home. After renting for years, they're first time home buyers as of July, purchasing a condo in the heart of North Park.RELATED: Making It in San Diego: Sailor gets proactive to find housing"I remember the first feeling that I got when we got our keys, and we got into the house, and I was like, 'Wow,'" adds Streets with a sense of relief. "I own this, and I can do whatever I want. I don't have to ask somebody if I can put a hole in the wall or hang a picture."While Millennials are struggling to buy in San Diego, Millennial Veterans are surging in home purchases, up 61 percent according to Veterans United with an average purchase price of almost 0,000. And for the Streets, it was made possible using a VA Loan. "They got all the paperwork together, all the legal stuff sorted out, and they actually made the condo VA qualified so that we were able to use our VA loan. Which wouldn't have ever been in here if it wasn't for that," says Corrie Streets.The Streets are far from alone. VA purchase loans in California are up 66 percent from 2013 to 2018."This is either the most financially advantageous path or, in some cases, it’s the only feasible path to homeownership," says Chris Birk.RELATED: Making it in San Diego: Millennials outpace Generation X in both total debt and long-term savingsBirk is Director of Education at Veterans United Home Loans. He says in some cases veterans and service members, if they qualify, can get a VA loan for no money down. The average 30-year rate for June was 4.2 percent, better than most conventional loans. "They don't have to build pristine credit,” adds “Birk. “And one of the biggest benefits is that so many veterans and service members aren't weighed down by student loan debt."And then there are vets like Wendell Stone. He and his wife Tessie rented for 30 years. That's when their daughter-in-law Aurora Perez, a realtor at Century 21, helped them understand they could qualify for a VA loan."They were able to purchase a home with my help in the Temecula area,” says Perez. "And then they were able to purchase another home in Oceanside and turn that into an investment property."Currently, there is a 0,000 cap on VA loans in San Diego County. But Perez says the laws are about to change and next year if a veteran or service member can qualify, there will be no cap for VA loans.Are you a veteran or service member in the market for a new home? Here’s your complete guide to the VA Home Loan. 2911

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