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SAN DIEGO (KGTV) - Kion Gould still lives at the La Jolla Crossroads Apartments, where one year ago on his birthday a gunman opened fire, hitting him and six others.He survived, but his friend Monique Clark died. He spent a month in the hospital recovering from three gunshot wounds. When he got out, he went back to his gym routine and says now he’s physically back in shape. But “mentally, there is anguish,” he says.His life has become a study in what happens to mass shooting victims who survive.The shooting plays out in his head often, reliving the day in vivid detail.“It seemed like it happened yesterday,” he says.It was April 30, 2017. Gould says things were winding down at the pool and they were about to head to dinner in Pacific Beach.He was heading toward the pool gate when he noticed a man lying by himself on a lounge chair.He remembers telling him, “It’s my birthday, come have a good time. We’ve got food, we’ve got drinks, we’ve got girls. That’s exactly what I said.”The man, now identified as Peter Selis, did not respond with words. Instead, he pulled out a .45 caliber handgun.“I didn’t think it was a real threat until he basically raised the gun toward my head,” said Gould.He remembered thinking part of him wanted to jump on top of the man and rip the gun away. But something held him back as he tried to rationalize the situation. Why would someone have a gun there?“What stopped me was the thought that he was a special needs person that had a toy,” he remembered. “Then I thought he was an undercover cop.”But within seconds it became clear it was not a fake and he intended to use it. Reflexively, Gould raised his arms over his face.Selis’ first shot hit his left arm.“I remember seeing blood dripping down my face so I thought I was shot in the head.”He turned to run and was hit twice in the back.He was able to make it out of the gate and up a set of stairs where he collapsed overlooking the pool.“I was up above everything and I was witnessing him shooting everyone. Like he’s just there shooting, reloading. Shooting, reloading.”Meantime, Kalli Seely was down on the pool deck. She had her purse strung over her shoulder and was on her way out when the shooting began.“I heard the first gunshot and looked automatically at Kion for some reason,” said Seely.But she couldn’t tell what was going on yet.“Then I felt something hit my arm,” she said. “I thought somebody threw something at me.”It wasn’t until she heard a friend yell “gun!” that she realized what was happening.She had been shot twice. Once in the arm and once in her left breast.“I was like ‘am I going to die?’ because that’s what you think when you get shot in the chest,” she thought.Later she would learn the bullet did not strike any vital organs but she ended up nearly passing out on the lawn outside the pool. Someone picked her up and brought her to a sidewalk on Judicial Drive where they waited for an ambulance.But as police arrived, they began closing off all the roads around the complex, blocking even ambulances from getting through. A few minutes later, Seely says a security guard drove by and took her and two other victims to the area where first responders were waiting.“Within 20 minutes we were in the hospital while the rest of them were scared, bleeding, in the pool area with the guy still shooting,” she said.By the time police killed Selis, seven people had been shot.Gould’s friend Monique Clark later died.“She had always been a happy person,” he said.Clark almost didn’t come. Gould said they had been hanging out several days before when he accidentally closed his car door on her finger, breaking it.“She was just mad at me. She didn’t hate me,” he said. But she was reluctant to come until Gould worked his charm to convince her.“I would gladly give my life for her to be here,” he now says, specifically because of her three children.“I would trade places with her, easily, without a doubt so she could be there for them. She will be forever in my heart.”Gould was eventually taken to am ambulance and remembers being conscious until he was sedated at the hospital.It turned out, the bullet did not make it through his arm into his head. Only a fragment had struck his eyelid.“The doctor was surprised I stopped the .45 with my bone,” said Gould.Doctors credited his strong physique for saving his life. While some of the fingers on his left hand are now numb, he says his body has made a full recovery.That’s only one step in the healing process though, he says.“There’s an aftermath that happens to all of this,” referring not just this shooting, but to victims of all shootings.“People just have developed [a] numbness to ‘oh, there’s a shooting. And another shooting.’ ”Seely agreed, observing mass shootings become widely publicized, then the media and the public move on to the next. The pain of the victims, especially the ones who survive, often gets forgotten she says.“There’s a deep pain that doesn’t go away and it lives with you everyday and it never stops.”Both describe it as a lingering weight.“I try and push it to the back of my head and forget that it’s there, but as soon as things are quiet and I go to mundane, everyday tasks it creeps right back in,” said Seely.Gould says he and another one of the shooting survivors have enrolled in an experimental PTSD treatment study at UCSD. But he’s skeptical it will help.Even though the shooter is dead, Gould says his hatred towards Selis can be all-consuming.“He created, this tragic, unforgiving, relentless thing that’s continuing to influence our lives. And you can never have that back.” 5625

SAN DIEGO (KGTV) - Many Asian American business owners continue to struggle during the pandemic, but a North County teen is hoping to help by creating a website to support local restaurants."I was hearing a lot of stories about Asians in my community experiencing discrimination during the pandemic," said 17-year-old Kaia Culotta.The teen said coming from a family of small business owners, she wanted to do something to help."I realized that there wasn't an easily accessible, comprehensible list of Asian owned businesses in my community," said Culotta. "So, I saw a need for that."For weeks, Culotta learned how to code through free programs online to build a website. The "Help Asian Owned Businesses" site has an extensive list of restaurants located around the county.Culotta said her project sparked the interest of San Diego City Councilmember Chris Cate. He even shared a video promoting the site on social media."It is awesome. It's such a neat thing to be doing out of the goodness of her heart," said Joe Kao, owner of R3fresh Juice Bar.After seeing Cate's video, the small business owner reached out to the teen to thank her for putting the site together.Kao said his business, like many others, had fewer customers during the pandemic. "We definitely saw a drop in business, but we've stayed open," he said.Kao applauds Culotta's work and thanks her for thinking of the county's small Asian business owners. 1430

SAN DIEGO (KGTV) — It’s been a historic wildfire season in California, made even more complicated by the pandemic.Emergency officials in San Diego County continue to shore up evacuation plans and brace for the worst, as more than a dozen wildfires in Northern California reveal the challenges of responding to two crises at once.As tens of thousands of Californians fled the wildfires last month, some turned to a shelter at the Santa Cruz Civic Auditorium. But with new rules in place to mitigate the spread of COVID-19, the shelter quickly filled up.The Civic Auditorium reached capacity August 21 and had to turn some evacuees away. The shelter remains at capacity, according to Cal Fire.About 27,000 people remained under evacuation orders as of Tuesday, according to Cal Fire. The Red Cross and partner organizations were sheltering more than 4,500 Californians in various settings as of Monday night.The Red Cross has put some displaced residents in hotels, a strategy that emergency workers in San Diego County are planning to emulate.“The county, since the beginning of the pandemic, has been working really proactively to identify and contract with hotels and motels to meet the unique housing and lodging needs of our community members,” said Senior Emergency Services Coordinator Julie Jeakle.With help from the Red Cross, the county has amassed a list of nearly 100 hotels and motels in San Diego County that could be called upon as emergency shelters. Some of these hotels were previously tapped as quarantine sites for individuals exposed to COVID-19.Traditional shelters in gyms or at schools won’t go away, but they’ll look different. Red Cross volunteers will conduct temperature checks and health screenings. People who show symptoms will be taken to another location to isolate, Jeakle said.“Individuals can also expect to see individually packaged meals, instead of the cafeteria style-meal service we’ve traditionally provided in the past,” she said. “They may also see some health and behavioral health services provided virtually.”But what if there’s a widespread event, with tens of thousands of evacuations like in Northern California?In the early days of the fire in Santa Cruz County, several hotels filled up. The county had to urge tourists to leave so evacuees could get access to rooms.San Diego County has turned to the Mission Valley stadium site for mass evacuations, including during the 2007 Witch Fire. But that site is currently under construction, and emergency responders would need permission from the stadium’s new owner, San Diego State.Another option: the Del Mar Fairgrounds.The fairgrounds was used as a large animal shelter four times in recent history: 2003, 2007, 2014 and 2017. But in 2007 it also hosted people, and Jeakle said the county had been in recent talks with the venue.Determining which site -- or sites -- will serve as an evacuation shelter will be based on several factors, including the size and severity of the emergency, Jeakle said.“We’re certainly here to serve if and when we’re needed,” said Del Mar Fairgrounds marketing director Jennifer Hellman.Hellman said the fairgrounds would have procedures in place requiring mask-wearing, social distancing and increased cleaning, and there would be hand sanitizer stations deployed throughout the site. 3325

SAN DIEGO (KGTV) - If violence is a learned behavior, so too then is non-violence. That’s the philosophy of two San Diego men who have worked together for 24 years to stop violence and save the lives of children. Azim Khamisa and Ples Felix have a message of peace-making to save the lives of children. The pair teach students in 5th through 9th grades the principles of accountability, empathy, peace building, and, above all, forgiveness. “We're not going to wake up and be in peace, We must teach restorative practices and create healthy kids, and healthy minds. Children who practice the principles of non-violence and actively commit themselves to becoming peace makers,” said Azim Khamisa. Khamisa started his journey after tragically losing his only son, Tariq Khamisa, when Tariq was 20 years old. As a college student working part-time, Tariq was lured to a gang house to deliver a pizza and fatally shot by then 14-year-old Tony Hicks. “It was like a nuclear bomb went off in my heart and I was broken into millions of small pieces. Violence is very real. It cuts deep and scars the soul,” Khamisa said. Khamisa founded the Tariq Khamisa Foundation to teach non-violence and took the extraordinary step of reaching out to Tony Hicks’ grandfather, Ples Felix. “I’m not here in a spirit of revenge...I'm here in the spirit of forgiveness because we both lost a son,” said Khamisa. Felix said he was praying for a way to reach out to the Khamisa family and provide support. He saw this as an answered prayer and accepted Khamisa’s hand of forgiveness. “To go forward in a way that in my life is totally unassociated with respect to that kind of trauma. I wanted to be with Azim's family...and commit to be of service any way I could,” said Felix. That was 24 years ago. The two men say they are now closer than brothers. Their safe school model is a 10-week curriculum, teaching lessons on empathy and compassion along with conflict resolution. The program also brings a peace club and leadership program to the schools. The results are staggering. The program has been shown to cut truancy and expulsion rates by 68 percent and increase conflict resolution peacefully by more than 90 percent. Khamisa and Felix have reached almost 600,000 students and, through digital and television coverage, the figure is easily into the millions. Former students such as Rocio Hernandez credit the program with saving her from despair, violent revenge, and thoughts that life isn’t precious. “On the way home from school I was attacked by gang members...I was only in the 7th grade. That could have been a turning point in my life. I could have turned violent myself. It’s crazy how the Tariq Khamisa Foundation came into my life at the right time. I remember coming out of that assembly empowered like I could take on the world,” said Hernandez. Hernandez now lives a positive, productive life and speaks to young people about her journey to happiness. It’s a journey that started with forgiveness, which Khamisa calls a gift you give yourself. “Mandela has a great quote: Resentment is like taking poison, and waiting for your enemy to die.” 3146

SAN DIEGO (KGTV) - In celebration of National Pool Opening Day and in anticipation of the summer season, San Diego leaders will hold a community water safety festival Saturday.The 10th annual "April Pools Day" event will be held at Bud Kearns Pool, at 2229 Morely Field Dr., featuring swim assessments, CPR demonstrations, and safety presentations to educate about safe water practices.The event will also hold a cannonball kickoff and giant inflatable obstacle course for kids.RELATED: National Pool Opening Day signals summertime swimmingThe community water festival is aimed at waterproofing San Diego, through a multi-step approach to drowning prevention, swimming lessons, and beach safety training.As San Diego readies itself for the summer, the Prevent Drowning Foundation of San Diego will also hold a number of free swimming lessons and CPR demonstrations around the county. A full list can be found on the organization's website. 952

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